Gearing Up for 2013!

Published December 30, 2012 by Maryanne

I loved 2012 in so many ways. I accomplished a major goal of mine which was to be more expressive and confident in myself, including myself in more conversations and not feeling embarrassed if I was center of attention, because I deserve it!

For 2013, I continue to work on that because it’s really a hard one for me. I’m too afraid to let loose because of fear of rejection and/or fear of coming across as egotistical — and that is definitely not me, as I’ve been told I am “too humble” by those closest to me.

I need to remember what they taught you in school — JUST BE YOURSELF! Whether it’s being funny or philosophical or standing up for something I believe in, I have every right just as everyone else does!

If someone doesn’t like who I am, or is annoyed by me, that is their issue not mine (because we know so many people are annoying themselves, so who are they to say!)

I always hated when people referred to Anna Nicole Smith as a “bimbo” because she once said something very profound: “If you don’t like me, I’ll like you anyway.” Now THAT is the spirit! To be able to like everyone, even if they don’t like you — you’ve mastered something very special in your life. And I truly believe I am there!

And speaking of special, early in 2013, I’ll be interviewing one of my favorite fellow bloggers, Rohan Healy http://rohan7things.wordpress.com/about/

Rohan wrote this amazing book, “The 7 Things That Made Me Genuinely & Irreversibly Happy: and how they can do the same for you.”

His recent blog entry, “7 Things You Can Do To Make Your 2013 Better than 2012!” is very inspiring: http://rohan7things.wordpress.com/2012/12/30/7-things-you-can-do-to-make-your-2013-better-than-2012/

To illustrate that these things really work, I will comment on each one of his seven points!

1. Stop Spending Time with the Wrong People. It was very important for me to let go of a few people this year. I’ve blogged about that a few times. People can be the greatest in the world, but doesn’t mean they are right for you. When a friendship feels like “work” — whether it’s one person always trying to call the other and get together, or you’re always worrying about how the luncheon will turn out (will it be fun or will it drain you?), then it’s time to take a break or move on. Believe me, when you let go of the wrong people, you will definitely grow closer to the right ones. Or new rights ones will appear!

2. Create Reasonable Goals and Stick to Them. Running my own business is very hard, but knowing my limitations and when to let go of a client that is no longer serving my highest interest really helped keep my career on track. Just like having “wrong” friendships, you can have wrong clients too. There is no law that says you have to keep every client. If something isn’t working, you’ll know it.

3. Affirmations and Holistic Healing. I know this first hand. I have a saying, “I don’t do doctors.” I’ve had one too many miracles in my life healed by positive thinking, meditations and believing in ME — not them! I am 49. My blood work is excellent. My bone mass is excellent. And I am only a few pounds more than I weighed in high school. And I have no gray hair. The color of my hair is all natural, I haven’t dyed it since 2010!Β  I am doing something right!

4. Practice Self Discipline. Self discipline is very important to me. Except for when I’m on vacations, I get up every morning and have a moment of silence where I light a candle. I also exercise every morning. Whether it’s a half hour or just five minutes of stretching, this, to me, is what keeps me focused and ready to start the day!

5. Try Abundance Consciousness. When you believe you deserve something, you get it! Whether it’s love, money, health … it’s all yours! The gifts from the universe are ours for the taking. It’s just so bizarre, sometimes I’ll find an extra $100 bill lying around when I really needed money. Other times there will be more money in my checking account than I thought there was. Mind you, this always happens when I’m in a positive frame of mind, not a doubting one!

6. Learn to Love and Accept Yourself. This one is easy for me because I have so much love to give, whatever is left over is for me! Each year I try to be the best I can and I’m always happy with how far I’ve come.

7. Read Some Old Philosophy. I love philosophy. My favorite of all time is Gurdjieff. Also, I’d like to add to this — read the stuff that is positive, period. Don’t bother reading “train wreck” blogs or Twitter pages. If something makes you cringe reading it, best to pass it by and move on to something that makes you feel high and happy.

Thanks to Rohan for all his wisdom and inspiration!

NOW, on to the celebration!

I’ve always believed that it was important to have a good New Year’s Eve. It would set the tone for the upcoming year. And best of all, that New Year’s kiss — which is right up there with the wedding kiss!

Tomorrow night I’ll just be having dinner with my love, then we’ll spend some time for family. And I will be waiting for the stroke of midnight to get an amazing kiss from the love of my life!

Dennis and Mary Anne Dr. Jimmy Show 3-20-11

WISHING ALL OF YOU A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR!

My all your dreams come true in 2013!

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11 comments on “Gearing Up for 2013!

  • Your healthy lifestyle is the reason you haven’t aged much over the years. That is the reason my dad is alive at the age of 98. If he ate like I have he would have died years ago. Between stress and poor eating habits it is no wonder, that I now have cancer. My dad eats mostly food out of the garden and kept up the garden till he was about 95.

    HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND DENNIS!!!

    • Andrew you can always reverse cancer! I knew a girl who had cancer in her entire body. She looked like an old woman and was only in her 40s. But she started eating raw foods and organic, but also going through chemo — just keeping options open. The doctors only gave her a week to live — she’s still alive and doing well. I saw her a few years ago and she looked terrific. Never too late, Andrew! You can learn a lot from your dad!

      Happy New Year to you and Rhonda too! πŸ™‚

  • Great post Maryanne πŸ™‚ You added some really good points to the 7 things, I especially agree with “Train Wreck” blogs. What you expose yourself to has a huge effect on your mood and your perception. It’s really important to surround yourself with and expose yourself to positive examples wherever possible πŸ™‚

    Have a great 2013, looking forward to the interview!

    All the best.

    Rohan.

    • Thanks so much Rohan! I’m glad you liked the good points to the seven things, it’s proof that positive thinking not only works — but works wonders!! I look forward to our interview in a few weeks! πŸ™‚

  • I love this blog. Your words are really inspirational.

    As they said in the movie The Help, “you are kind, you are smart, you are important!” I thought of you immediately.

    We should all tell ourselves that every day.

    Life is so much better when we focus on the positive and wipe out the negative. Sometimes, it’s hard but it definitely makes a huge difference in life.

    You can definitely tell that you practice what you preach. You look like you’re in your 30’s!

    I believe in making resolutions all year long, not just on New Year’s Eve. We can always work on ourselves on any given day.

    I think Andrew’s dad has the right idea….eating from the earth. We shouldn’t eat anything we can’t pronounce. I think I heard you say that and I’ve thought that for years as well.

    I hope you, Dennis, kitties and family have a fantastic New Year’s Eve and a prosperous, healthy, happy New Year!!!!!

  • Yep, don’t hang out with toxic people. I learned that long ago. In fact,I don’t even hang out with people at all since I moved. My husband doesn’t count. I married him because I knew he was perfect for me. I moved from the Gold Coast to Canberra where I know very few people, and despite me being a total people person, I am loving it! πŸ™‚ I love your resolutions and I think that if you stick with them you will have a very happy and fulfilling 2013. xo

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