Several years ago a friend told me not to use the word “hope” and that it’s a “negative word.”
The more I thought about it, I realized he’s right. Though the dictionary’s definition of “hope” is a positive outcome, I feel that in life it’s an overused word that can sound extremely … uh … hopeless.
When people say or write: “I hope everything is all right.” The first thing that comes to mind is Black Francis, of The Pixies, and his cry of desperation in the opening of the song, “Mr. Grieves.”
“Hope everything is all right …” From the tone of his voice, it certainly doesn’t sound “all right.”
When people write me that line, I snap back: “Why wouldn’t it be?! Am I on my death bed?”
That line just doesn’t sound refreshing. It makes me think of crotchety old-before-their-time people complaining about their bleak future. My immediate response is to spin it around and write back what a blessing LIFE is! Because I’m MORE than just “okay.” And I’m more than “hope.” I’m manifestation of life’s every day miracles! It’s just so great to be alive!
In Law of Attraction, it’s more awesome to view positive things as something that has already happened.
When I write emails to friends, my emails reek of positivity:
“I bet you’re rockin’ it!”
“I’m excited to hear what you’re up to!”
“What’s new, Pretty Lady?”
“Great to hear from you! How the hell are you?!”
Now, tell me these phrases aren’t better than a boring, outdated phrase like: “Hope you’re okay.”
When you use enthusiasm in your words, it automatically lifts the vibrations, therefore lifting the spirits of the person you’re addressing. Be creative and exciting in your words! Let that lust for life wear off on other people and put a great spin on the day!
I don’t “hope” you have a nice day — I KNOW you’re gonna have a great day!
And even when people aren’t having a good day, they always tell me that I’ve lifted their spirits by my positive attitude.
So, let’s not “hope” — let’s TRUST!
Hi, Maryanne. Thanks for the follow. I enjoy visiting your blog, too. I lived in NJ a hundred years ago, Englewood. Anyway, regarding ‘hope’ as a negative word, I like the idea. Maybe because it reminded me of Yoda’s reprimand about ‘try.’ I think yours is a similar concept. Yoda famously said to Luke Skywalker, “Try not. Do or do not. There is no try.” Happy to have you aboard.
Hi Tony! So nice to meet a fellow New Jersey-an! Englewood is awesome. Though each town/city we have here has a unique charm. Great concept about “try” too and I agree 🙂
Aho. This is MY world too, Maryanne, you spelled it out exactly how I never write or verbally say the word, hope.
Yay Lorrie! Keep rockin’ it!