I’m a guest speaker at Leading By Mission’s Women Empowerment Pop-Up Shop next month!
Next month I have three speaking engagements, two week-long cat sitting assignments, and as always a ton of journalism. While I love my career so much, I need to pace myself. Yesterday, today, and tomorrow, are dedicated to me. I kicked off yesterday spending the entire day with my husband in Princeton, which is about an hour away from us making it a day trip.
We had lunch at the vegan Planted Plate. I had a vegan Reuben sandwich with a “side” salad that was big enough to be a meal. And that’s why I love this place, their meals are like two in one for the price of one. Their salads aren’t just the basic lettuce, tomato, and onion. They also put broccoli and carrots. I always go for their agave Dijon dressing, which is fantastic.
I only ate half the sandwich, there was so much; so I guess it’s half a vegan Reuben for breakfast today!
Afterwards we went record shopping at Princeton Record Exchange. I scored big with five retro CDs, Tom Jones “Reload” from 1999 is absolutely fabulous. Other scores include The Psychedelic Furs, The Charlatans, The Replacements, and The Squirrel Nut Zippers.
When we got home — THIS! They absolutely love each other!
Sleepy eyed Sammy & Nicholas
They didn’t even get up to greet us like they usually do. They stayed there all cozy on a lovely winter day–one of the last few as we’re coming into spring. The next few days in New Jersey it will be in the 50s and 60s.
And I got a text from my sister — THIS!
Mom, age 13 or 14
This beautiful little girl is my mom! My sister was going through her attic and found a ton of photographs. This is one she texted me. She also texted me one of my mom holding me as a baby. She also found photos of a friend I had back in high school who I still see a few times a year! AND, photos of me in Pharoah!!
For those who don’t know, Pharoah was my favorite band as a teenager. I met the lead singer/guitarist Karl and guitarist Richard (RIP) at a shopping mall when I was 17. They were a little older. They told me about their band, and I followed them everywhere. A few years later, Karl asked me to be a part of their stage show! My role was to dress in lingerie, and hand Karl his guitar and give him a kiss.
Erin, Sibol, and Maryanne (Club Magique) … I was around 22
I did a few shows with them, then decided this was not for me–I really wanted to be a writer. Eventually they got other girls in the show and when one couldn’t make it, they asked me to return for one important show–the legendary Club Magique in Manhattan.
Eventually Pharoah got signed and were on MTV’s “Headbanger’s Ball.”
When they broke up, I kept in touch with Karl over the years. He and his wife Margo came to my poetry readings in clubs and art galleries, where I was “featured reader.”
They had reunions, but the one in 2005 was very special. This is when I was able to spend some time chatting with the bassist, Dennis. I gave him my card, and we ended up dating and getting married in 2011; we eloped. (Note, I was and still am quiet around people I don’t know; so back when I was in Pharoah, I rarely talked to Dennis; just Karl and Richard).
Interesting side note, when we married, one of our witnesses was the late Daniel Popp, brother to Nelson Popp, drummer of Pharoah.
Where am I going with all this? Two weeks ago, I interviewed Nelson and wrote an article about what he’s up to these days, with his latest band The Gutter Kings:
I love when I get to work with my friends. Over the years I’ve interviewed everyone I’m friends with. I truly believe we all have stories to share. It’s the responsibility for a journalist to bring these stories to life. Last week I covered some amazing stories about a historical society, the LGBTQ+ community, Black History Month (there were many I covered), and 100 Hispanic Women NJ’s Galentine luncheon.
Now I’m on a three-day chill, with something else fun on the horizon planned for tomorrow.
I love my life!
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